Speak Up - Where We Share What We Think

Okay,
So I know not many younger people like to publicly talk about that three letter word. But I have zero shame when it comes to how I'm thinking about reading sex scenes. (and from being a member on this site, a lot of you like to read and write this) Please excuse my quick efforts in my examples..

Example One: The Lovers
He thrusts into her forcefully, soaring deeper and deeper. She throws her head back and arches her back as he quickens the pace. She looks at him, her face of expression shows she's in ecstasy as a harsh groan escapes her lips, he knows she is close. Her beauty is astonishing to him, every inch of her is perfection, inside and out. He looks up, biting his lip as her walls tighten around him and he knows he can't hold on much longer. Their bodies suddenly become clammy, as small droplets of sweat fall from their face. She starts gripping tightly on to the sheets as her body throws herself against him as he pumps wildly knowing they are about to reach their climax - Okay, I better stop there before I want to write a whole scene. Jeez.

Example Two: The Dominant
She pushes him away, she doesn't want this tonight. Not now. Not with him. But he's persistent as he takes her hand and pulls her towards him for the second time. She finds all her inner strength to push him away but his grip tightens and that familiar smirk works his way upon those cherry lips. She knows she doesn't stand a chance. He reaches down and forcefully removes her knickers, she watches him in defeat. How can a beautiful person be so reluctant and forceful? She just didn't understand. He takes his boxers off and lifts her up, forcing her legs around his waist as he whispers hot words into her ear. He knew this would work and she'd start to become moist, he smiles proudly to himself. She closes her eyes and wraps her arms around his neck as she starts to feel his unwelcoming entry - Annnd that's enough with that one. I could just go on..


Anyway, point being sometimes in a story we get so much from a character it becomes realistic in many ways. We see them go through the good and the bad, just like we experience day in and day out.

What I've written there is a quick off the head of two examples.
Example one is two characters who are in love, they have so much passion that they show through emotion, feelings, actions and sex. Just like we would.
Example two is showing how he is so in control of her. She loves him and she's to weak to fight the love she has for him, because she knows if he wants her, he will have her whether she likes it or not. Even though he may not love her back in the same way.

These stories make everything feel more real to me. I am older so I tend to read things like this without giggling and maybe turning a little shade of red.
But what do you want from a story if it involves sex/smut?
Do you prefer the characters to be in love and passionate?
Do you before one character being more forceful to the other?
Do you think the whole 'You're mine you do as I please' works better for you?
or Do you just not really care you want to read some action ;)

Notes

Please don't discriminate me for what I have written above.
As stated in the Title above, there was a warning in advance.