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Today we are going to talk about something exualy everyone has experienced in their life's, the loss of someone close to you. We all have granparents, Parents, Friends, aunts, uncle's, sisters, brother, cousins, pets etc. and we have all experienced that moment when it feels like time stops around you when you get to hear one of those person's past away because of something or someone, it's hard to get to talk to someone when they just got that told to them. Lots of people want to be alone for a moment, just to think and realise it did really happen but that is okay. I, myself have lost 2 of my grandmothers and my grandfather who I unfortunately never got to meet, he had past away before even my own mother knew him, it was my dad's dad. Nobody wants to experience the loss of someone but it happends, we are human not immortal people who can live 4 ever so we got to live with the fact that we have only one life, our own that we control and live with and understand that when someone dies it doesn't mean your life is over darlings. You still have a life to discover and that person will Always be there with you doesn't matter what path you take but don't take the wrong path, it will not only hurt yourself but also the people you love and the people who love you. I will give you some tips on how to survive such a great loss.

Tips <3 :

1. Cry, you may cry and if I we're one of you I would cry to. It's not fun or anything else if you loose someone, it feels like there is a big hole in your heart because that person is gone but that person is still there with you and they will stand by your side with what ever you do.

2. Talk about it with one of your friends or with your family members or maybe someone who has lost someone close to them as well, talking about this helps. you can tell that person everything and let your heart speak.

3. Don't end yours, I understand that it hurts and that it maybe feels that your life is nothing worth anymore without that person but that's not true. you have a future in front of you that you can discover yourself or with someone else, you can still go where you want to go and do what you want to do.

4. Know that you are loved, every person loves you and everyone loved the person they lost. they are there for you so don't feel like there is no one who understands you cause there is. everyone has lost someone in some part of their life's so please talk about it and live your life.

My condolences to everyone who has lost someone this week, last week or somewhere in this year. Stay strong and believe in yourself, you can survive this with or without some one
I love you guys
xx
Me

Notes

Stay strong babes, me and Aby are here for you guys
xx
Me